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***QUESTION***

Honestly Dave, I think you need more caution, and warning signs on your products, before some knucklehead tries to sue you for loading his life with more women than the poor soul knows how to handle.lol I've followed your newsletter, purchased your Ebook, and Advanced Series. Totally Incredible stuff. I dated my High School sweetheart for the better portion of 5 years, and honestly if I knew way back then what I know now it probably wouldn't have lasted 5 months. She was always demanding, and got upset when I tried to hang out with friends of mine, pretty much your average basket case, but I felt like she was the only girl that I could ever attract. Then I managed to stumble over your site and signed up for your newsletter and not long after I cut the ties with her, and I am happier today and date more interesting, intelligent women than I ever thought possible. All thanks to your ingenious, and selfless hard work and research.

I would say that my greatest problem is that i'm generally a pretty low keyed mellow kind of guy that doesn't mind going out to clubs but would far rather find a few girls that don't mind chilling out at home or enjoying a walk on the beach, stargazing or hell just wrestling around on the bed.(no pun intended)lol However if these girls tend to stay homebound for the most part what sort of venues would you recommend for meeting these types. Door to door dating perhaps..lol I have also tried the online personals which is where much of my success come from, but many of these girls you have to look out for or you could have a bona fide stalker on your hands.(I know this from experience)Yeah it sucks being a good looking, confident guy huh? This is my first time emailing you after reading the newsletter for well over a year now..(yeah I stay busy)but I wanted to tell you what a awesome job your doing and that it's greatly appreciated from myself and multitudes of others, not that you didn't already know that; just thought i'd annoy you by saying..lol OK Dave.. Take care and keep up the terrific work..God Bless

Lionhart, DE

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, first off I want to thank you for the shameless promotion and over-hyping of my materials. I appreciate it... Next, let's talk about your "wish list".

You "don't mind going out to clubs", but you'd "far rather find a FEW GOOD GIRLS that don't mind chilling at home or enjoying a walk on the beach, stargazing or hell just WRESTLING AROUND ON THE BED". With each other, I'm assuming...
Hey, sounds good to me.
Maybe while they're wrestling they'd let you videotape... and you could start an internet company based on the concept. Cut me in for a percentage. And you know, I like the way you think.

Well, I hate to break the news to you... but if you want to meet women, you're going to have to do SOMETHING. The internet-bed-wrestling-make-money idea was a pretty good one... hey, kill two birds with one stone. Other than that, you might try out a few of those magical activities that are interesting, enjoyable, and (BIG AND) also draw intelligent, attractive women like a magnet.

Try an art history class. Or go to a classy "food fair" or restaurant opening. Hit a yoga class or a kickboxing aerobics class. Dance classes are also a big winner. In other words, there are some great places you can go to meet women... AND have fun... AND become a more interesting, classy guy. Who'd-a-thunk-it?

***QUESTION***

I have been talking to this girl for about a month now and I find myself falling in love with her everytime we see each other (every Tuesday Night). She recently told me that she didn't want to date me yet, because she would hurt me. She also said that if it is meant to happen it will, and that we shouldn't force it. My question is how do I get her to realize that it is meant, and that we should push it, and how do I prove to her she won't hurt me??

Sincerely,
-J.K.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, I'd say that the FIRST thing you should do is grab a piece of paper and a pen, and walk into the bathroom right now. Turn on the light.

On the piece of paper I want you to write the word "YZZUW" on it. I know, it doesn't make sense... but do it anyway. Now, hold the piece of paper in front of you, so it's facing the mirror... almost as if it's a CAPTION for YOUR FACE. Look at yourself in the mirror. Let that settle in for a minute.

Step 2:
Now that you have a clear picture of what a WUSSY looks like, move on to a more advanced maneuver. Carefully take your right hand, and raise it up next to your face. Hold it about 12 inches away. Now firmly BITCH SLAP yourself with it. Repeat until the Wuss has been slapped out of you...

Dude, duuuuuude. You are SOOO missing the point here.

She does not want a guy who will prove to her that she won't hurt him. She doesn't want to be with you because you're acting like a WUSSBAG. Women aren't attracted to girly-men. Girly-men freak women out. Women RUN from girly-men. The answer is for you to start acting like a MAN... and stop acting like a GIRL. You need to get yourself a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques Program immediately. This is an emergency. Do it.

***SUCCESS STORY***

Hi Dave,

I have in my life had good and bad success with women and I just learned to live with it. I have a very good job im a big guy 6'3" 240 nice build and I get told a lot that im good looking. So with all that being said I just thought I would take things as they come. I have always been cocky+funny naturally BUT I didn't use that on the women that I really wanted always one ones that wanted me or just girls I work with etc.. Also I wasn't doing it in the fashion that you teach. I wouldn't use the lines " you know you want me admit it" or "just say please" those would move the attention to ME and away from the situation I would think which wasn't what I was after while doing it. I would always be C+F just because that was me.. I wasn't trying to pick anyone up lol its so funny thinking back now. Anyway. after reading your mail bag and book it dawned on me.. WTF was I thinking.. I would have literally dozens of women chasing me but all of them I didn't want (not cute or what ever).. but the ones I wanted were like he's cool but what ever..well this girl that I like is a bartender at a bar I go to every weekend, we joke play but never date.. I started using the stuff you teach on her as a test (was in friend zone) and BAM she wont leave me alone said to me today on phone that she's liking me more and more every day..I said damn your slow.. everyone else gets it what's taking you so long.. I helped her tend bar last night and every time she passed me I said loudly "will you stop grabbing my ass" its like a different girl.

I have lots more stories since ive been using your stuff for weeks now and its un-real I am able to get laid 3 or 4 times a week now with out even really trying. (need to rest sometimes) lol. I wasted so much time and im only 34.. oh one more thing to those people that worry about age.. the oldest girl I was with since I started Dave's stuff was 30 and that's cuz she was a challenge.. the rest are 22-26 its like magic man.. get rid of your fears and go for it

P.S. since I started DD101 I have filled my cell phone book with numbers and most I didn't even ask, they would take my phone and put it in themselves.

J from Michigan

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, I love getting emails like yours... One of the great things about the Cocky & Funny (now referred to on occasion as Cocky Comedy) is that so many guys ALREADY GET IT.

And, just like you, many of us have understood EXACTLY what to do... we just never did it when we were around women that we LIKED. I'm glad you're figuring out how all of the pieces fit together...

And thanks for reminding all of us that just because you're tall and good looking does NOT mean that you're going to automatically get
girls...

By the way, put a hat on that thing... and watch out. Use caution, my friend. You don't want one of those unwanted gifts that just keeps on giving...

***QUESTION***

Greetings David,

I live in small Easter-European country which is by all means underdeveloped. So, after encountering the ad for your book, I was suspicious if it is going to work for Bosnian women too. But, after buying and reading it, I only discovered that the whole story about Bosnian women was only in my mind. I discovered that after reading about all kinds of fears men have while approaching women. Those fears take form of the entire set of reasons only not to be rejected or embarrassed.

Anyhow, in brief: After browsing through the book I started implementing concepts. My address book is now filled with emails and phone numbers right below the email. I am constantly going out with girls. And I enjoy it. But the biggest benefit I derived from the book was: it has instructed me to be a better person and man. It has also shown me how.

So, thank you for sharing your knowledge with me. I am very much interested in your new publications, should you have some. And in joining the Buyer's club if you have one, too. Could you please let me know about these things?

Many greetings to DoubleYourDating community. It's OK to be a man.
Regards,
D

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice! Thanks for your email. I get a lot of emails and questions from guys who ask "Will this work in my country?". Now, I personally don't have a lot of experience in different countries and cultures... but from what I hear back from guys all over the world who are using these concepts, they are universal. Congratulations, and thank you for your email.

A woman doesn't have to LIKE you to feel ATTRACTION for you. The ATTRACTION happens on its own... regardless of other things happening at the same time. Certain traits and communication techniques trigger ATTRACTION... and if you know what they are, and how to amplify them, then you can create results that will literally seem like MAGIC to others watching.

And if you haven't downloaded my online ebook "Double Your Dating" yet, then what are you waiting for? Go get it! You can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes... download it here:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com just follow the ebook link.